This absolutely is the sexiest thing a dude can do. I have been doing this for quite some time and like most life hacks, results will and do vary based on consistency and degree of rationality.

Kris I ain’t mad at you and I am not sure why anyone would be 🤨. It is safe to assume that anyone who would like to dispute your rationale on this is not in the best of emotional health, which is telling and is basically to your point.

For many the way happiness is defined is lost in the dominant framing of just what happiness looks and feels like. Specifically from my own male perspective, my emotional good health doesn’t have to look like the typical dime piece (trophy wife) hanging on my arm nor is it the house, the car, the career and the bank account. It resonates with having a an emotionally positive outlook that satiate emotional health, which ultimately ends up being an attractive attribute to have.

Now whether that lands you in a loving and enduring relationship is essentially happenstance but at least you have established a Matthew effect towards it.

It appears the more that I write the better I perceive.

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