This is a tough read to get through with all the dysfunction. There is dysfunction in all human families and they vary widely in scope and degree and added burden of intergenerational transference — not in terms of socioeconomic status, but by psychological predisposition — makes childhood into adulthood a daunting experience if you are not percipient enough to discern and remain cognizant.
In essence you have managed to avoid inheriting a disorder. This only cements my belief in you that you are a very self-aware individual.
Once again Marley K., this is one helluva share.